Stay At Home Dad – What To Wear Part 2

I’ve been informed that there is another stay at home dad clothing style to add to our burgeoning list that shall now be known as the “Weekend Dad” look.

This look would involve jeans or cargo style shorts teamed with running shoes, dressy type sandals or thongs (Flip Flops). Up top you could wear a polo shirt, T- shirt or even a business shirt with the sleeves rolled up and a couple of buttons undone. Think corporate Dad on Saturday morning taking the kids to sport.

This is a great way to get some use out of your old business shirts and it also means you can wear your shorts and sandals in the summer without feeling like you are using up all your normal weekend casual wear.

I personally think that in this instance you should try to keep your footwear sensible even in summer as although it may be marginally cooler it can be pretty uncomfortable (and dangerous) pushing prams or chasing kids through the sand pit in a pair of thongs or leather sandals.

The sweat factor can destroy this type of footwear pretty quickly too so it’s much better to save them for when you are actually out relaxing somewhere.

Keep ’em coming….

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Recipes For Toddlers

There are plenty of recipes for toddlers to be found and one needs to make sure that when their toddler does eat that they get as much nutritional value as possible from each meal. The big problem is that it can be extremely difficult to get a toddler to eat anything at all.

From talking to a lot of Mums and Dads the universally accepted toddler meal appears to be good old pasta with a bolognaise sauce. For some reason all little ones just love it.

My lovely vegetarian wife has developed a vegetable packed version of this classic meal that your toddler is sure to love. It not only looks and tastes like the meaty pasta you know and trust but it has the added nutritional benefits of a stack of veges that we could never get our toddler to eat on their own.

We have fed this meal to a lot of our meat eating friends without telling them that it contains no meat and nobody has ever noticed. It is not until we tell them that they voice their surprise so it’s not as if it tasted weird and they were just being polite – they really didn’t notice!

Because of the great variety of ingredients squeezed into this toddler recipe we have no problem feeding it to her three or four times a week. There is everything she needs in this power packed meal.

Here is what you will need to make enough for four adults (and some left over for lunch too).

VEGETARIAN WIFE’S FAMOUS BOLOGNAISE RECIPE

1 x large onion
1 x large carrot
1 x large zucchini
1 X small eggplant
2 x garlic cloves (crushed)
1 x 400g can lentils (drained and rinsed)
2 X 400g cans salt reduced tomato soup
100g button mushrooms
50g baby spinach leaves
500g packet of pasta (we use penne)
Olive oil
2 x tablespoons BBQ sauce
1 x tablespoon dried oregano
1 x tablespoon Hungarian paprika (mild)
Salt and pepper

Method:

1. Wash and pat dry all fresh ingredients.
2. Finely dice the onion, carrot, zucchini, eggplant, mushrooms and spinach.
3. Over a high heat, (approx 8/10) heat 2 tablespoons of oil in a large frying pan and then   add onion  and garlic and cook for 3 mins or until soft, stirring continuously.
4. Gradually add the carrot, zucchini, eggplant, mushrooms, spinach, and lentils and then cook for 5 –   7 mins mixing well.(NOTE: If you add the ingredients a little at a time it helps to keep everything nice and hot and so it all cooks better.)
5. Add the tomato soup, BBQ sauce, oregano and paprika and bring to the boil while mixing well.
6. Cover and simmer on low heat (minimum) for at least 20 mins and up to an hour stirring occasionally.
7. Cook the pasta as per instructions.
8. Pour sauce over cooked pasta and eat (grated cheese and green salad optional.).

I generally make the recipe for the family and then freeze the remaining sauce only in individual portion sizes. These can be re-heated easily and quickly in the microwave when required and all you need do then is add freshly cooked pasta and you are ready to go.

You can even skip the pasta and serve the sauce only with a bit of grated cheese and a slice of bread. Our little one just loves slurping up the cheesy sauce with a spoon and gobbling down a mouthful of bread straight after.

A food processor is very helpful as all the ingredients need to be unrecognizable for this meal to be a success (ie your kids cannot know what they are eating!) and dicing by hand is very time consuming.

The best thing is that our little one likes it so much that not only is it requested but it actually all gets eaten and we sleep better knowing that our cupcake is getting all the vitamins and minerals from a variety of vegetables that her growing body needs.

Bon appetit!

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Stay At Home Dad – Where Is Your Mum Part 2

Just to let you all know that this stay at home dad wasn’t being oversensitive or paranoid in regards to my “Where is your Mum” post. I wasn’t really planning to do anything about it however last time when I went to the fruit shop I decided to confront the lady when she again asked my daughter ‘”Where is Mummy?”

‘Why do you always ask her that?” I said to her.
“What do you mean?” she replied.
“Well we come in here every week and every week you ask my child the same question over and over again. Where is mummy, where is mummy, where is mummy? Mummy is at work where she is every time we come here. You know it, I know it and my daughter knows it. What’s the deal?”

I think that she was a little shocked at the direct nature of my question.

“Oh,” she says, visibly reddening with embarrassment.” I am only having a joke and I don’t mean anything bad by it.” Which basically means that she is having a joke at my expense and that she does mean something bad by it.

“You are married with kids right ?” I ask her.
“Yes” she says.
“And you both work?”
“Yes”
“Does your husband ever cook for you?”
“No way”
“Does he ever clean the house for you?”
“Not a chance”
“So he looks after the kids then?”
“Occasionally”
“So you both work all day and then you go home and have to do all the housework as well?”
“Yes”
“Oh, I understand then” I reply and with that I left.

I have been back to the shop twice since then and always at the same time on the same day and the lady is nowhere to be seen. I even asked about her last week as we used to get on quite well before all this rubbish started and I was told that she was out the back somewhere. I am sure she is avoiding me. Good. It just goes to show that those attitudes are still out there.

Watch out stay at home dads….

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